Internet Divorces: We Can Do It All Ourselves! (Maybe...But I Doubt It)
There is a rapidly increasing tendency among spouses seeking divorce to do it themselves, without consulting a lawyer at all. In particular, many use the internet to obtain forms and answer a few questions before going to the court house…all to save a few hundred dollars for a consultation, or a little more to retain a lawyer to insure that everything has been properly considered and done appropriately.
In my opinion however, for most couples, obtaining a divorce without ever consulting a lawyer is a bad idea.
Why? Because you get what you pay for: the cookie cutter offered by many internet sites may not cover all the contingencies that are unique to your marriage. In turn, one spouse may be put at risk by giving up valuable rights that they, the spouse, didn't know existed. Consulting an attorney is really the only way to avoid this outcome.
For example, what about health insurance for each spouse? Maybe one spouse is on the other's health insurance policy because her employer (an increasing possibility) does not provide him or her with that benefit. Let us take the case where, the husband's insurance policy obtained through work is providing medical coverage to both spouses. The husband "Travis" has been on the job 3 years. The wife, "Jane" was also a named beneficiary under Travis' policy, but they have only been married for 1 year. However, because of medical reasons, Jane may not be able to get medical insurance on the open market, or if she can at all, her medical condition would be excluded.
Many people would believe that once divorced, Jane is no longer entitled to health insurance policy offered by Travis' employer. That assumption is incorrect, but if followed, could put Jane at risk of being without medical coverage for a significant period of time.
Under federal law, "continuation coverage" must be provided to a divorced spouse for a given length of time. The length of time for a continuation is usually nine to eighteen months; however, the duration of continuation coverage within those parameters is determined by the size of the company.
Additionally, continuation coverage offered by the spouse's employer is often cheaper than coverage bought on the open market and the company policy can't exclude pre-existing conditions from the coverage, assuming the otherwise uninsured spouse can get it at all.
For Jane, if it turns out she is uninsurable, obtaining medical coverage continuously after the divorce may be critically important to her getting medical coverage in the future, when the continuation coverage provided by Travis' employer expires.
The reason is that as someone who may be uninsurable, Jane will be eligible to purchase medical coverage from the State. Illinois is one such state that offers this type of coverage under its "CHIPS" program.
However, in order to qualify for CHIPS immediately, one must first demonstrate continuous coverage for 18 months under the Illinois program to get coverage immediately after the continuation coverage expires. If Jane can't demonstrate continuous coverage for that period, she would normally be put on a waiting list to participate in the CHIPS program. The waiting list poses a significant hazard to any one on it because a person can be on that list for several months. During the period an applicant is on the waiting list, she could be without health insurance.
Needless to say, this could have disastrous consequences for Jane. A medical misfortune could cost her hundreds of thousands of dollars without insurance. To avoid this outcome therefore, it is essential to plan so that the otherwise uninsurable spouse meets the requirements for State provided insurance in advance of the divorce.
Thus, under the scenario mentioned, if Jane anticipates taking advantage of a State sponsored insurance program without a creating a possible gap in coverage, Jane by should purchase the continuation coverage supplied by Travis' employer for at least four months. However, because Jane would have to pay the premium for this medial coverage and the insurance provided by the State later, Jane might want to purchase the continuation coverage to the maximum amount allowable under Travis' policy if it is cheaper than the State sponsored coverage she would have to purchase later.
This is but one situation that illustrates my point: in order to save a few dollars, the spouses could unknowingly create a potentially disastrous outcome that could cost tens or even hundreds of thousands of dollars to one spouse. It is doubtful that a couple will ever know all of the potential problems, or the available solutions, present without the aid of a creative lawyer
Thus, even if you believe you know all the contingencies confronting you as a divorcing couple, spend the relatively small amount of money necessary to make sure everything is in order. It could be one of the best investments you ever make.
Disclaimer: Any statements contained herein are not legal advice. Rather, the statements contained in this article are merely the opinions of an Illinois practitioner who currently concentrates his practice in the area of family law.
Jeffrey M. Brown is an
attorney from Chicago Illinois. With 20 years of experience, he concentrates his law practice on divorce and custody matters. His practice recognizes the emotional component to divorce and provides the client with supportive resources.
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need time to get back in the work force . got lucky with this trade but need toknow how to present it to the courts during divorce proceedings. marriage >40 yrs, but sp doesn't want to share assest othern then sale of home
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Aanyone who has gone through divorce please help?
My dad went to a divorce attorney without my moms knowing, right before our floorcluser on our house. And now we have to b ouut n a couple day. And my mom called an attorney and said tht she wants to leave and hold off on a. Divorce as long as she can, she still thinks my dad is coming back but he isnt. Is tht even possible to do, she said she will wait 6 months and then file for divorce if he doesnt move n with us. Do u think she is doing the right thing.
also my dad
paid no attention i hurt myself, or tried to kill myself
wouldnt let my mom check my bro into a mental hospital
and got drunk everytime he wasnt working
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Have you ever known of "professionals" who stalk others across state lines, their kids, to corrupt them?
to help someone someone, scapegoat someone (me) for others the man, soliciting a client, my husband maybe?: Couple 'A' live in a far state, make a lot of money. 'Couple B in another state, us, not making as much money. Both have kids. One in far state with moneyhas grudge against the other relatives. Sos lawyer goes down to the other stte, snoops around investigates my kids, cross examine them , etc., t to get my,the poorer ones, kids into trouble, ..see which ones can be sacrificed, or blamed,. There is money, who gets it? Messess up their school, gets them to talk badly about their (us) parents.Fake jobs to hire me, finally break up the home...go after the teenage dtr and son,..keep them out of college/ I was not on drugs, not sleeping around. If he was I did not know it at the time. I think they set my husband up with someone, then blackmailed him, then said they did not break up our marriage. They broke us up for money...old grudges.
is it legal to stalk someone;s kids across to corrupt their morals to scape goat them...God knows what else they did to the kids. I was homeless when they got done, ruined as a parent. Did it to sue for someone. I refused to take him back homeless.battered twice more. I as not in need of medication when this started.Publicly defamed my character and morals to young people to ruin the childrens' respect for me, get money for others,, ruin their respect for her intelligence, capability., competency. Is this legal...to go back and forth across state lines to ruin me with my kids. I have been stalked back and forth.
I had no divorce attorney. I could get no legal representation for anything. I tried.My divorce was prearranged. I did not know we were divorcing. I thought we had plans. I did not know what hit us. I did not have a BF, the idea is completely ridicuous and I am not gay or bi. I was home every evening took the kids to school and picked them up from Christian schools. I placed them in those schools so that I could do that. I went to college so I could work and help them to go.
We had plans which included sending the kids to college, I was told.. They were in church from the time they were born until I was 31 and then into Christian schools when I could not go to church any longer. They were intelligent enough to attend college, and I did attend. I earned honors . I went so they would. Now the stalkers who stalked and ran them out of college for these other people from here to there and back...are destroying my academic reputation to justify doing what they did to them. hey did it to knock them out of education, and me. They did it for others. My kids were sacrificed, so was I.
At this time, they (from here stalking me down there..looking for kiddie porn? or kiddie mistresses). then set up a fake job, to get more money for them off us. and ruined my reputation because they :fake hired me, to make it look like I would be working , had a legit job, to string me through the divorce. They also took old old letters down to the counseling center and gave it to them, so we could not say they broke up our marriage. Dragged up old problems, years old, retrned and went after us to break up our marriage...over problems long resolved. We had to break our lease and move and buy a home early due to what they did, got taken royally on the house, slandered.... we did not have an open marriage in that we had permission to cheat on each other.Never.
Need to watch your children. Watch those lawyers, where are they from. Watch those new jobs, where they are from what they are really
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