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Internet Divorces: We Can Do It All Ourselves! (Maybe...But I Doubt It)


There is a rapidly increasing tendency among spouses seeking divorce to do it themselves, without consulting a lawyer at all. In particular, many use the internet to obtain forms and answer a few questions before going to the court house…all to save a few hundred dollars for a consultation, or a little more to retain a lawyer to insure that everything has been properly considered and done appropriately.

In my opinion however, for most couples, obtaining a divorce without ever consulting a lawyer is a bad idea.


Why? Because you get what you pay for: the cookie cutter offered by many internet sites may not cover all the contingencies that are unique to your marriage. In turn, one spouse may be put at risk by giving up valuable rights that they, the spouse, didn't know existed. Consulting an attorney is really the only way to avoid this outcome.


For example, what about health insurance for each spouse? Maybe one spouse is on the other's health insurance policy because her employer (an increasing possibility) does not provide him or her with that benefit. Let us take the case where, the husband's insurance policy obtained through work is providing medical coverage to both spouses. The husband "Travis" has been on the job 3 years. The wife, "Jane" was also a named beneficiary under Travis' policy, but they have only been married for 1 year. However, because of medical reasons, Jane may not be able to get medical insurance on the open market, or if she can at all, her medical condition would be excluded.


Many people would believe that once divorced, Jane is no longer entitled to health insurance policy offered by Travis' employer. That assumption is incorrect, but if followed, could put Jane at risk of being without medical coverage for a significant period of time.


Under federal law, "continuation coverage" must be provided to a divorced spouse for a given length of time. The length of time for a continuation is usually nine to eighteen months; however, the duration of continuation coverage within those parameters is determined by the size of the company.


Additionally, continuation coverage offered by the spouse's employer is often cheaper than coverage bought on the open market and the company policy can't exclude pre-existing conditions from the coverage, assuming the otherwise uninsured spouse can get it at all.


For Jane, if it turns out she is uninsurable, obtaining medical coverage continuously after the divorce may be critically important to her getting medical coverage in the future, when the continuation coverage provided by Travis' employer expires.

The reason is that as someone who may be uninsurable, Jane will be eligible to purchase medical coverage from the State. Illinois is one such state that offers this type of coverage under its "CHIPS" program.


However, in order to qualify for CHIPS immediately, one must first demonstrate continuous coverage for 18 months under the Illinois program to get coverage immediately after the continuation coverage expires. If Jane can't demonstrate continuous coverage for that period, she would normally be put on a waiting list to participate in the CHIPS program. The waiting list poses a significant hazard to any one on it because a person can be on that list for several months. During the period an applicant is on the waiting list, she could be without health insurance.


Needless to say, this could have disastrous consequences for Jane. A medical misfortune could cost her hundreds of thousands of dollars without insurance. To avoid this outcome therefore, it is essential to plan so that the otherwise uninsurable spouse meets the requirements for State provided insurance in advance of the divorce.


Thus, under the scenario mentioned, if Jane anticipates taking advantage of a State sponsored insurance program without a creating a possible gap in coverage, Jane by should purchase the continuation coverage supplied by Travis' employer for at least four months. However, because Jane would have to pay the premium for this medial coverage and the insurance provided by the State later, Jane might want to purchase the continuation coverage to the maximum amount allowable under Travis' policy if it is cheaper than the State sponsored coverage she would have to purchase later.


This is but one situation that illustrates my point: in order to save a few dollars, the spouses could unknowingly create a potentially disastrous outcome that could cost tens or even hundreds of thousands of dollars to one spouse. It is doubtful that a couple will ever know all of the potential problems, or the available solutions, present without the aid of a creative lawyer


Thus, even if you believe you know all the contingencies confronting you as a divorcing couple, spend the relatively small amount of money necessary to make sure everything is in order. It could be one of the best investments you ever make.


Disclaimer: Any statements contained herein are not legal advice. Rather, the statements contained in this article are merely the opinions of an Illinois practitioner who currently concentrates his practice in the area of family law.




Jeffrey M. Brown is an attorney from Chicago Illinois. With 20 years of experience, he concentrates his law practice on divorce and custody matters. His practice recognizes the emotional component to divorce and provides the client with supportive resources.

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Am I becoming too clingy?
I'm 21 male, graduating from college with a specialized business degree in December. I live at home in order to graduate early. For the past two years, my home life has spiraled out of control. My little brother almost died in the hospital. I never understood why parents of terminal children divorced so much, but I know why now. My parents have never been the same since and always been fighting. My older brother married a horrible woman and caused even more fighting in my family. I don't have any outer family like aunts or uncles to run to because they are abusive people who disowned my parents. Recently, I've been so overwhelmed and broken down by my home life I needed someone to talk to. I called a friend I felt I could trust and she willingly let me open up to her. For the past four weeks, she was always open to talk to and gave me encouragement. I always worried about coming off whiney and clingy even though I try to stay upbeat about my circumstances, but she insisted I could always talk to her. This week my sister-in-law flew in to raise hell in my house. I texted her every day this week which in my mind is excessive, but I was having anxiety attacks and she would help me. She has always replied to my texts whenever I needed to talk. I guess I'm becoming overly self-conscious because I'm so stressed out but she didn't return my two texts today. I can't see how she would suddenly ignore me. Am I being too clingy? Did she turn me away finally?

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need advice - relationship issue?
I was married for 8 years, one child. Divorced 2 years ago and reconciled right after divorce and were living together again. For the past year, things have been awful. Caught him having an affair in March, threw him out. We worked it out and he moved back. But everything was changed. Then I had an affair, unbeknownst to him. Then last week 4 nights in a row, even tho I called him at 2am the 4th night and said come home, he still didn't show up til 7am and I had to get to work and our son to school. So I told him to pack up and move out last week. He left. I had a friend of mine stay over last night. We were sleeping in my room. My ex-husband came in the middle f the night and went to sleep on the couch. I woke up and went to the living room and found him. He cried and said he wanted to reconcile. i said our friend "k." is sleeping in my bed. He went right in there and I woke up K and, oh yeah, awkward city. Well the ex wouldn't leave, and he cried and told K how could he do that, we've all been friends for 9 years, ect. In the end, the ex drove K home and came back. The ex is obviously upset. I love him but we live this vicious cycle that's been going on for a decade. I am so at a loss on what to do. There is a lot more drama here that I don't have time to explain, but this pretty much sums it up. In addition, our son is sick and my ex is at my house taking care of him today while i'm at work. I get to go back and face him this evening. I do love him, truly, but I feel like it just won't ever work. My family, friends, boss, everybody is about ready to intervene and force me to end this charade. I am so confused. So, please advise me on what the hell to do with this horrid situation. No rude comments, please, I feel like a horrible person enough as it is. Thanks. I meant 4 nights in a row he didn't come home, sunday he didn't come back til 10am.

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How do you help a child being raised in a racist enviroment?
True story; They were a interracial couple, they had three children together, one day she went home for a visit and came back a hillbilly redneck, turning into a total country western girl, the problem is she has three children half black. She took the children divorced the husband and now lives at the top of a mountain in Georgia claiming she is a redneck hillbilly. Proudly stating to the world My fear is the children. In this small town those kids are the only black people for miles and miles. Not one single different race around. The kids are such a mess, they talk crap about Mr Obama. They talk with a "twang" One of the children left, demanded to live with his dad, but the two girls up in the mountains are not allowed to leave, not to live or even visit...How will they ever know who they are? Just because the mom is a country hillbilly how is that going to turn out for the children?? I am now married to the father of these children. I try to stay out of there business, but knowing the importance of a black woman knowing her african american heritage, What can I do? I look for articles to send her but can never find an appropriate one. I am at a loss and would like some advice.....

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